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No.
1038
Durban
No. 1038 Durban

I'm the best man at my mate's wedding next month. His bride has no idea we spent last December together in Ballito

No.
1029
Johannesburg
No. 1029 Johannesburg

Our wives think my gym buddy and I are training for the Comrades. We have never once gone for a run together

No.
1019
Greytown
No. 1019 Greytown

We both tell our girlfriends we're going fishing every weekend. We haven't caught a single fish in three years

No.
1007
Centurion
No. 1007 Centurion

Matched on Grindr with my old matric rugby captain. We're both married now. Our wives play padel together every Tuesday

No.
998
Cape Town
No. 998 Cape Town

My fiancée thinks I go to a braai club on Wednesdays. There is no braai club. Just a guy from work and his flat in Sea Point

No.
987
Mbombela
No. 987 Mbombela

Once a month we both tell our wives we're away "for work". His wife packs him padkos. We eat it together in bed

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